You are in good relationship with a person they love you and they care for you but you don’t appreciate it. Unfortunately, some people will even take advantage of the person they are with. They lie, deceive, manipulate, cause all kinds of drama breaking the person’s heart. We all want a good relationship but unfortunately some people when they get into one they don’t know how to handle it. There are different reasons for this. A person may have been in a string of bad relationships so much that they don’t even recognize a good one when they see it . Then you have people that just can’t commit but won’t be truthful about it and get into a relationship anyway knowing they will break that person’s heart. It’s so hard these days to have a meaningful relationship its like a lot of people just want to be lifetime bachelors and bachelorettes. The dating scene is so messed up these days its crazy. A lot a people don’t just date cause they are trying to have someone special in their lives its because they have some hidden agenda. Why can’t some people realize that you can’t play the field forever at some point you will have to settle down and if you can’t find anyone because you burned a lot of people by leaving a trail of broken hearts and got a bad reputation for it then What? The rest of your life in solitude or dealing with a bunch of people that are not worth your time. Seriously, GET A CLUE!!! I admit I’ve burned both ends of the candle at one time I played the field long time ago and now trying to settle down with the right person. And yes I was in a relationship were I was being the “good girl” and did anything and everything in the relationship cause I was deeply in love with the person. Unfortunately, the person never appreciate the person I was, how good I was to him and he completely took advantage of me so after a long run I left cause I was over the bullshit. Felt like I got out for time served after that relationship LOL. Hence Love = Insanity I can’t say this enough cause if you knew what I have been through with this dude you will think this woman is insane to have been with him so long or really been with him PERIOD. Now he is missing me and all the the good things about me and wishing he never screwed up cause now he realizes how good he had it and wants me back yada yada yada all I hear is the character from the cartoon the Peanuts the nanny when she talk you don’t hear words all you hear is Waah Waah Waah Waah Waah Waah. Hence Missing the Water when its Gone. People need to realize when you have a good thing cherish it and be grateful you have it don’t wait till its too late cause once its gone its gone and you can never get it back.
I see skies of gray
The sun is black
Flowers are dead and flat
And I say to myself what a stressed out ole’ world
My mind is never at peace
My heart stays in pain
I lost all hope in life again
And I say to myself what a stressed out ole’ world
All I ever wanted was happiness
But all I get is stress
My own chaotic world
With nothing but unhappiness
And I say to myself what a stressed out ole’ world
Now don’t get me wrong I love men but despite that I feel that women are superior to men. Now I know that a lot of men will disagree saying that women are weak, emotional, and don’t make sense. Well they are wrong just because a man has strength, doesn’t show emotion, and are simple in their actions and words does not make them better. Women are very strong physically and can take pain (I like to see a man go through pains and struggles of child-birth). And the only reason why we seem emotional is because we are able to express our emotions more unlike men who keep it bottled up inside till it eats them alive cause they can’t handle it. Women are very intelligent but because a man don’t always understand what we are saying they just say we don’t make sense when truthfully we do it’s just men are simple -minded. The problem between men and women is that there is not enough communication and understanding therefore always a conflict between the two. And since men are too macho and egotistical to even put in an effort to try to understand women they just blow us off. Now lets take a look on how women have always been the superior of the two species.
Adam and Eve
Now God created man but because Adam couldn’t handle the world by himself and see all the other animals in the kingdom with female mates and felt lonely so Eve was created. This is true today no matter how far in life and how high the status of a man has it is never enough he has to have a woman in his life to share it with and be his support.
Women live longer than men. Even from the womb the mortality rate for men is higher than women. The life expectancy for women is 80 yrs and men 74 yrs. We have a higher tolerance for pain (why women bear children) and we can last longer than men without food because we store more body fat than muscle (muscle requires more calories than fatty tissue) unlike men. Plus the fact fat burns fewer calories than muscle which helps when there is a food shortage making men more susceptible to starvation. Plus, men are more susceptible to disease than women because of their life style. (Heart attack/stroke and Cancer being number 1 and 2 killers of men). As far as strength goes men are not the only ones that can lift weights and be physically fit. There are women who are body builders and are physically fit as well. And as far as doing certain jobs and activities go women can do they same thing as men.
Women are very intelligent whether it has to do with learning, socialization, or emotions. Unlike men who are quick to act before thinking women are more reasonable and think things through before acting. And yes men tend to be more aggressive but unfortunately because of this aggression are more irrational, violent and risky. (Notice car insurance rates are much higher for men and there is more men in prison than women they out number women 14 to 1) Men are very visual when it comes to learning and thinking where women can just read about a particular subject making women better at education. (See men we don’t need pictures and diagrams to learn). As far as emotions go we are more expressive with our feelings which gets our word across where men because of macho pride and ego don’t know how to deal with it which at times can lead to mental and emotional self-destruction.
Women have more endurance, are multi-orgasmic, and enjoy the quality of sex (fore-play, role-playing, etc). Men on the other hand have less endurance, they have an orgasm once or twice then they are done , they rather quantity over quality so they have more of the “wham bam thank mam” type of attitude. (Then they wonder why they have trouble getting sex from women if men would stop rushing all the time maybe they just might get some) Men if you don’t know by now women do talk and if your quality is not up to par then you quantity of sex will be decreased. And women are able to connect during the act of sex usually with the one they love vs men who have more trouble doing so cause they either never learned how to deal with their emotions, or feel its a sign of weakness and if they give in then they feel they are giving complete control to women (I blame misogynistic men for this one).
I am very proud to be a woman there is nothing wrong with that. As women we have come a long way from the days of being barefoot and pregnant, stuck in the house and not having the same rights and opportunities as men. Women are priceless unfortunately not all women realize this (due to lack of self-esteem, self-worth, self-pride, and misogynistic men). Now men feel without them we are nothing (laughing) yeah right last time I checked we bear the children (which includes boys that become men thank you), we can live independently without them where they always need our support. Women are highly intelligent, very motivated, and can do anything a man can do even better. Women The Superior Species Yes We Are!!!!!!!
My mind a wreck from all the thoughts that run around in my head
The pain the stress the constant sorrow caused by something or someone else
As I try to free myself from the continuous battle within my mind and my heart
As I long for the light of happiness to shine upon me and get me out of the darkness
I sit here in the bowels of my emotional state as I burn alive in the flames
And whatever happiness comes my way the little bit of heaven I get alas it is short-lived
of my emotional hell rises taller than any mountain and
engulfs me faster than any sea torturing and laughing at me as I struggle to break free
My mind so heavy in thought my heart soaked in pain
My own personal hell a war between my heart and my brain
Men just don’t the understand the mind of a woman. They think women are just too complicated. They feel that we are too emotional and over-react half the time. They just don’t take the time to understand men just act like its nothing. And that’s the problem because men don’t take the time to understand women conflicts occur. Too emotional they say no we just more in tune with our emotions and express it freely while men just keep it bottled up inside and let it eat at them till they explode. I admit sometimes we may over-react but not all the time the thing is men don’t always want to hear the truth so what we may say to them seems to always be an over-reaction. Men keep it simple sometimes too simple. Sometimes they rather avoid the situation rather than face it head on and resolve the issue. And they sometimes have a hard time admitting what they are really trying to say. At times its like a guessing game with them like you are supposed to be a mind reader or something. So naturally we make our own assumption on what they are trying to say which can be dead on or completely wrong. Understanding each other is the key which allows people to communicate better and avoid issues. Some of these men think they know everything about women and feel they can handle them accordingly. Truthfully they don’t understand then they say or do something wrong and wonder why women get upset about it. Women are not as complicated as men think we are it’s just the fact that men don’t take the time to understand us. It’s like the saying goes “knowing is half the battle” and if you don’t know what is going on then your just lost and setting yourself up for failure. It shouldn’t be this hard to understand one another but unfortunately it is. Maybe one day men may understand women (laughing) yeah right wishful thinking I know. Until then Men Just Don’t Get It!