You are in good relationship with a person they love you and they care for you but you don’t appreciate it. Unfortunately, some people will even take advantage of the person they are with. They lie, deceive, manipulate, cause all kinds of drama breaking the person’s heart. We all want a good relationship but unfortunately some people when they get into one they don’t know how to handle it. There are different reasons for this. A person may have been in a string of bad relationships so much that they don’t even recognize a good one when they see it . Then you have people that just can’t commit but won’t be truthful about it and get into a relationship anyway knowing they will break that person’s heart. It’s so hard these days to have a meaningful relationship its like a lot of people just want to be lifetime bachelors and bachelorettes. The dating scene is so messed up these days its crazy. A lot a people don’t just date cause they are trying to have someone special in their lives its because they have some hidden agenda. Why can’t some people realize that you can’t play the field forever at some point you will have to settle down and if you can’t find anyone because you burned a lot of people by leaving a trail of broken hearts and got a bad reputation for it then What? The rest of your life in solitude or dealing with a bunch of people that are not worth your time. Seriously, GET A CLUE!!! I admit I’ve burned both ends of the candle at one time I played the field long time ago and now trying to settle down with the right person. And yes I was in a relationship were I was being the “good girl” and did anything and everything in the relationship cause I was deeply in love with the person. Unfortunately, the person never appreciate the person I was, how good I was to him and he completely took advantage of me so after a long run I left cause I was over the bullshit. Felt like I got out for time served after that relationship LOL. Hence Love = Insanity I can’t say this enough cause if you knew what I have been through with this dude you will think this woman is insane to have been with him so long or really been with him PERIOD. Now he is missing me and all the the good things about me and wishing he never screwed up cause now he realizes how good he had it and wants me back yada yada yada all I hear is the character from the cartoon the Peanuts the nanny when she talk you don’t hear words all you hear is Waah Waah Waah Waah Waah Waah. Hence Missing the Water when its Gone. People need to realize when you have a good thing cherish it and be grateful you have it don’t wait till its too late cause once its gone its gone and you can never get it back.
In BBM chat why don’t some people get the point that not everyone uses it to get a date? There are people out there like me that use it to meet friends to have good conversation with. Key word being “friends”. Friends Definition: one attached to another by affection or esteem b : acquaintance Get it FRIENDS. I’m so sick of men trying to ask me out on a date, try to be my man, or try to make arrangements to have sex it is ridiculous. Number one I don’t do the online dating thing I know it’s a bit old-fashioned but i prefer to meet my men in person whether I meet them at the store, bar, beach, through a mutual friend, etc. For other people its fine but it’s just not for me. It’s already bad enough I have to deal with the men that always want to have a sex chat like I’m some sex chat line or send me nude pictures but this is ridiculous. Especially, the men that are in another state or country. Lets get one thing straight I don’t do long distance relationships for a reason (been there, done that) it just does not work out when there is too much distance between two people. You lose interest eventually its like the saying goes “Out of sight, Out of mind”. Unless, you really love the person and willing to make it work it won’t stand a chance. You know how many men I had to delete off my BBM contacts cause of this its ridiculous. And why can’t some men take no for an answer? For example: A guy was interested in me and let me know he wanted to be with me. He asked me whether or not I wanted to be with him. I politely told him no he asked for a reason I let him know I don’t do long distance relationships and I’m interested in someone else. Very polite and honest. But no he just could not except that he had to carry on trying to convince me why I should be with him and how together we can make it real if we work on it. (Mind you dude lives in another country) Seriously dude I just said no what part of no don’t you understand the N or the O. Then he wants to carry on do I hate him do I think he is ugly is it the long distance I mean Really? I just told you the reason plus I don’t even know you. And he gets upset if I don’t talk to him DAMN I do have a life I’m not going to spend it talking to you all day. And because of this attitude this man asks me stupid shit of why I don’t talk to him why I keep acting like I don’t care why I keep breaking his heart am I fucking someone now Seriously?! Fucking psycho stalker *shakes my head*. And he likes to Ping me to death. Ping : The Ping function is useful for times when you may want to get the attention of a BBM contact, and either don’t have anything specific to say, or may want to let him know that you want him to get back to you. When you Ping a contact, he will receive a BBM message saying “Ping,” and his BlackBerry device will vibrate. The same will happen if you receive a Ping. <———— I hate this feature I wish RIM (Research in Motion (name of company that creates the programs for blackberry)) would get rid of this feature its a nuisance!
What part of I’m busy do you not understand? I don’t have to say what I’m doing IT’S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS ! He acts like he is my man or something (when he is not) it makes no sense at all. Then he had the nerve to ask me for my real name so he can add me to his Facebook friends (HELL NO!) so he can stalk me on Facebook I don’t think so. In the end I had no choice but to delete him and block him cause it was just too much to deal with. I keep getting these type of men in BBM no matter what disclaimer I put on a BBM add page of restrictions I have when I add you to my BBM contacts. Unfortunately, a lot of these men just don’t listen. This is why men and women don’t always get along you men don’t listen to what we say and don’t respect our wishes. ATTENTION MEN: If a woman is interested in you whether for a relationship or just sex trust me she will let you know. Trying to force someone to like you or be with you is not going to work if a woman is not interested she is just not interested Period! Let me tell you men something that I’m sure you have heard before women know in the first few minutes of meeting a man whether in person or online whether she is interested or not in a man. This is so true if there is no type of chemistry or attraction there then we won’t date you. BBM Is a Instant Chat not Match.com and not 1-900-sex-chat! I can’t say this enough this is a blog I wrote. Men need to get a clue you come at women the wrong way and you wonder why you can’t get a date and you are left sitting at home alone beating your meat. If it is meant to be it will happen don’t force it. GET A CLUE ALREADY!!!!!!!!!