The advancement of technology has been great and has made everything more convenient. Unfortunately, a little too convenient have we gotten so lazy and/or so busy that we can’t even find time to date seriously. I don’t believe in the online dating thing I’m more old-fashioned when it comes to dating. I rather meet a person in public somewhere than to waste my time talking to them online for weeks on end and to meet them to find out that I don’t even like the person. Cause you can talk all day long but until you meet the person you won’t know if the chemistry is right between you. And as for all those online dating sites I don’t care how much surveys or questionnaires you have people can still lie on them so I don’t trust them. You can end up with a fucking psychopath or something. Now how does this have anything to do with the title of this post you maybe wondering I will explain. Unfortunately, these days BBM (for those of you who don’t know blackberry messenger) is used to get dates and have sex chats. It’s hard to find someone to add to your bbm contacts that just want to have a good conversation without the sex and the come-ons. I had to delete so many men I’ve added from my contacts just because that’s all they wanted sex or to date me. Like seriously I’m not desperate and besides why of all places would I choose bbm to find a date or a boyfriend when all i have to do is pick up the phone and call someone seriously come on. But you get a lot of that and not just men acting that way women too. It’s like some of these people can’t just have a conversation with you anymore unless its sexual in nature or they trying to hook up with you and it’s sad it just shows me how mindless you are if all you can do it talk about that instead of having a real conversation. Why would I want to have a sex chat with a total stranger what I do look like a bbm whore? I save that type of chat for someone that’s either my boyfriend or my lover. Then the ones that really kill me are the men (usually from other countries) talking bout I love you, I want to be with you, I want to marry you, and I’m like WHAT?! I just added you to my bbm contacts, I don’t know you and what I look like your green card move the hell on. Did I forget the pictures OMG why do people just send you naked pictures of themselves to any and everyone it’s ridiculous. One I don’t want them so don’t send them to me, but some of these men even after I tell them this they still send them men are so hard-headed then you wonder why men and women don’t get along. Men don’t listen and are selfish point-blank. Then you have what they call the ping feature I feel it’s the worse feature in the world whoever invented it needs to be shot. People use the ping feature when someone is taking to long to respond back or they want to talk to someone so they try to get their attention. Some people take the ping feature too far and want to use it all the damn time even when your status says BUSY. It is not crucial for me to talk to you all the damn time I have what you need to get A LIFE! Excuse me if I have better things to do than to talk to you all damn day. I feel that some of these people are just lonely and need attention and I can understand that but don’t bug the hell out of me for it I can careless especially I don’t know you leave me the hell alone point-blank! Sometimes I wonder why do I even bother with bbm but there are people in my contacts that are decent so I still bbm I just wish everyone else will just get it together. So unless you are match.com, eharmony, 1-900-Fuck-Me or 1-900-I’m-Horny then leave all the sex chat and dating to the professionals. Cause last time I checked you are not paying me or anyone else 2.99 a min for dirty talk or 19.95 for 6 or 12 mths for dating services. Better yet get off your ass and go out and public and find a damn date hows that?!!!!!! (Laughing)
BBM Is a Instant Chat not Match.com and not 1-900-sex-chat!